Just called the manufacturer of my laptop and explained the problem, and they had really bad news. The chance of a internal short circuit, what is probarly causing the burned/melted connector, is around 95%. So it basicly means its dead 
As a new laptop isnt cheap, please donate some money to me. Every euro is welcome: http://paulsohier.nl/blog/donate/ 
Stop begging for money nub
Ouch, I hate the manufacture warranties..
If I had the money I would be happy to donate.
Since the economy is in a decline, the chance of me getting that money is slim. Good luck.